Some individuals suffer from shyness. They are tormented from the fear of being rejected, but their hearts are pure gold. Judging from their aloofness, many have judged them as snobs and unfriendly. On the contrary, they are some of the most loving, caring people you will ever meet.
It takes time and effort to truly know someone. Ask The Lord about reaching out to someone new this Christmas season. Spend time getting to know that shy person that lives on the outskirts of your fellowship.