There are people who mean we'll, but are difficult to enjoy. How can we see them through God's eye? Jesus said of you do not love your brother whom you have seen, how can you love me whom you have not seen? (1 John 4:19-21).
We begin by recognizing God hassle us unique. Life experiences bring defensive behaviors that cause conflict. Second we recognize that God loved us when we out behaviors were not, shall we say, attractive? ( Romans 5:10; 1 John 3:16$. We can begin to love by changing our focus from their lack of awareness of others to what they need from us, then ask God to give you his love and wisdom.
From there we walk forward. We may stumble but we wil get up and walk again.
