Let's be honest with one another. Sometimes. We women can be frustrating. Our husbands do not understand the way we view the world around us anymore than we understand them.
Husbands, I recognize it can be frustrating for you when your wife insists something is not right with a decision and she can't put her finger on it, so to speak. The tears that run freely down her cheeks during an argument are not normally a device to control you. She is more than likely just as frustrated about them as you are. She would much rather appear strong.
Men can begin to feel more than a little frustrated and bitter against their wives. That is exactly why this scripture appears in the text. "Husbands love your wives and do not be harsh with them" , or as some translations read, "do not be bitter toward them" (Colossians 3:19).
