Jesus told Nicodemus, “For God did not send his son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through him might be saved. He who believes in him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God” (John 3:17-18).
You can read Jesus words as God being angry that you don't obey him so he is condemning you. Or, you can read his words as saying, your choices have messed up your life. I am offering you a way out from your self condemning choices.
